You should not date a man who is....
- Is disrespectful to his mother or sisters. A man’s mother and sisters are usually the first women in his life and the ones who are the closest to him. If he can’t respect them he will not respect you
- Says his marriage is a sham (or he is only married “on paper”). He doesn't respect his wife or has no regard for the institution/sanctity of marriage. He will not likely leave his wife for you, and if he does, one day he’ll be saying the same thing about you to someone else.
- Is controlling/possessive. This is a trademark of abusers (verbal physical and emotional). It’s not about being confident or outgoing — beware of the quiet ones too.
Doesn’t take responsibility for his choices or mistakes . No one is perfect, but it’s a mark of maturity when a person can own up to their mistakes rather than blame others, the system - Is selfish/stingy. True, we are in a recession, but kindness in not only about how much money you spend, it’s an attitude.
- Is a quitter. It’s sometimes wise to call it quits on some things in life, but if this is a pattern for career, relationships, education, responsibilities, this is a big red flag. He’ll quit on the relationship too.
- Belittles you. If you are never right, stupid, idiotic, “dark”, if he doesn’t respect your ideas, opinions or choices, your relationship will be an unhappy one. He should be willing to let go his own desires for yours sometimes.
- Holds a grudge. If a person holds on to unforgiveness, bitterness and resentment, neither you nor him will be happy.
- Is cheating on his girlfriend or wife with you — nothing else needs to be said.
- Is always to busy work or friends always come before you always breaking dates or rescheduling dates and never spends enough time with you. just break it off you will never be happy nor get the attention every woman deserves! In a relationship you must always have time for your partner.
- Fantasy sports obsessed guys One fantasy league at a time is acceptable. and two is questionable. but three or more, say goodbye you never doing anything except watching sports!
- A mama's boy a man that still does everything his mom says and put his mom first or is on his mom side rather then yours all the time is not even worth dating. You will always be second , always compared to mom and if mommy don't approve you wont be around for long
- Best friend wit his ex if a man is still best friend with his ex something is definitely going on whether if its sex or feelings but something is up.
- The gay guy you will never be able to turn him straight no matter how much you love him do both yourself the favor and dont even try a friendship and feelings can seriously be hurt.